“๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐๐๐% ๐๐๐ซ๐ญ๐๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐ข๐ญ’๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ข๐ ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ง๐จ ๐ข๐๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ’๐ฌ ๐ ๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง.”
That’s the advice my psychology teacher gave me.
Everyone’s life is truly unique
We don’t know what will happen to us, and we can’t predict the outcomes of our actions, especially when they involve others.
Sometimes, all factors and our interpretation point to one cause, result, or conclusion.
Statistically, it might be a reasonable assumption, but we often deal with specific cases.
As they say, it doesn’t matter if the probability is 99% if you end up in that 1%.
We can’t predict anything in advance.
If so, what can we do?
First:
โถ๏ธ Explore possibilities
โถ๏ธ Test probabilities
โถ๏ธ Analyze outcomes
And then build what you want based on what happens.
Based on facts, not assumptions.
It’s particularly dangerous to base your actions on conclusions like “it can’t be any other way!” In such cases, often, the castles in the air collapse straight onto their creators, with all the consequences.
We never know precisely how something will happen until it does.
Maybe in general, but the details make the difference and are crucial.
So, moving step by step along the path of progress is the fastest way to achieve desired results.
(C) Progress Psychologist, Ivan